Meet the you underneath everything you were told to be
It’s human to want to belong. The trap is letting the group do your thinking for you. Take what’s true wherever you find it, leave the rest.
There is nothing wrong with belonging.
Only with going quiet.
You found somewhere to belong
You found a side, a faith, a people. It gave you something real. That part was never the problem.
Then it asked for all of you
Then it turned into all or nothing. To keep the good, you had to swallow the rest.
And your own voice went quiet
So you let someone surer decide what’s true for you. The one person who can actually know is you.
There is wisdom in almost everything
Go and take it
There’s something worth keeping in the cathedral and the mosh pit, in scripture and in the song that scandalised your parents. You don’t have to belong to learn from it.
Nothing here asks to be swallowed whole. Try it on, keep what rings true, leave the rest. Build your own thing, slowly.
The real work is just the two of us
Everything else here you can do alone. This part we do together: the values you were talked out of, the fear you mistook for your personality, the direction you keep explaining away. Not to fix you. To get you clear.
If you feel safe in the area you're working in, you're not working in the right area.
David Bowie
If you want somewhere to begin, begin here
Human Design is one of those things, and the chart is the easiest place to start. Run it on people you already know in your bones, and watch how close it lands.
Type, authority, profile, every centre and every gate in you, each with its gift and its shadow, in plain language.
What the calculator already gives you
Separate things I make, open to you
None of this is a programme. They’re separate things, each its own project. Take what’s useful, leave the rest.
Human Design
Your own wiring laid out plainly. Not one more personality label, but the actual map of yourself.
Open the calculator ↗Breathwork
For the days the thinking won’t switch off. A few ways to breathe and drop back into your body.
Open the library ↗Book Club
One book a month, read slowly, with a small room doing the same. No performing, no rushing.
See the club ↗The podcast & videos
Long conversations and short films about the strange and the worth-it, where most of this gets worked out loud.
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